User blog comment:WhyAmIReadingThis/Have I Changed?/@comment-23893664-20130520200855

Change, for the most part, is something beyond human control. What if a tragedy happens, or a moment in your life that is so deeply a part of your being that you can't possibly stay the same after it happens? The people who criticize you for "change" are judgmental and should not be listened to - people change, for better or for worse, and that is the grand scheme of things. You can't control change on the spot - it takes loads of practice and it's nothing done overnight or in a jiffy. In life, we're immobilized in our existence and have no choice but to continue down the path life has chosen for us.

Change is a part of being human. Don't let anyone bring you down for being who you are.