User blog comment:Asking Alex/I think im gay/@comment-26507513-20150702041738

I think that everyone once in their life feels like they may not be straight, I myself am bisexual and I was very confused about it when I started getting these thoughts. The way I figured it out was by experimenting and seeing if I enjoyed it or not.

In your case it may be a bit harder to experiment seeing as you're in a town where everyone is Christian, but maybe you could try to talk to gay friends and see if they can help you out.

Oh and just saying that if you're having sexual thoughts of being with males then you're most likely bi or pan but if you think about actually being with a guy and NOT with girls at all (and if you have had girlfriends that you got no gratification from the relationship) then you're more likely to be gay, but don't worry though because there are so many different shades of sexuality.

In terms of your town being judgemental then that may just be something you need to deal with, just try to remember that many people do support gay rights and maybe you could move out of your small town one day.

I hope I helped a little bit :)