User blog comment:Rainboh/Lost/@comment-26054278-20151114233812

Some of these comments are really rude, and it is a bit disgusting. This person pours out here looking for support, and a couple people here just kind of posted short comments that added nothing or didn't understand it.

Telling things like this to people and talking about it truly helps. I would know, as I've shared personal, non-pasta related things on here as well. It allows things to be more open here and it is honestly fairly amazing when people care enough to respond and help a fellow wiki person out. I know that when I started receiving comments from people and support from everywhere, it really helped me, so I 100% understand why Rainboh posted it here.

Instead of blindly ignoring it or questioning the existence of it, I think it is at least common human decency to give some sort of advice or show some sort of support.

Anyway, that isn't what this post should be focused on. Besides, a lot of people here have responded well, it is mainly the few that haven't that makes them come across as rather rude. Regardless, I will try my best to give some sort of advice as a form of aid.

I think the main point about staying sober is an important one, and I believe you should stick to that. However, I think Shawn's post hits the nail on the head a bit. This is more something that you really need to work out with him, and if it doesn't work out, then use the time ahead of you to learn from the mistakes of what happened. The hurt you feel now can be a motivation to improve, and even though it may take time for things to die down and for wounds to get better, it will be vital in order for everything to improve.

Hopefully you are less lost from reading this or any of the other supportive posts on here.