Board Thread:General Wiki Discussion/@comment-36052213-20180802015552/@comment-36052213-20180802052959

TheWizardOfTheWoods wrote:

If you don't like the way he is, then don't interact with him. Instead of going on a massive rant, you could just drop it, leave the site, or have a conversation with the guy. An actual conversation, not a one-sided shout. This kind of extreme response leads me to believe that you have a personal vendetta against the guy, and I've never seen anything from him that would warrant this kind of response.

All of that being said, I do not condone whatever he said to you to upset you this much. I recognize that gender and sexuality are not subjects to be taken lightly, especially considering recent events. I'm not an intolerant person, and I don't have any plans to change that. HOWEVER, I do have very good friends that are not as tolerant of other people as I am. They are my friends because they have similar interests, and generally their personality resonates with mine.

So instead of trying to be enemies with the guy, why don't you talk to him. Figure out who he is as a person. From what I've seen above, he hasn't done anything to warrant a demotion, save for a deletion which was reverted and hurting your feelings. The antagonism needs to stop, from both sides, and the only way to make that happen is to talk and work things out. This attack against a guy that you don't particularly like is not the solution.

And in the event that you can't work out your problems with him, you still have options. You can ignore him. You can stop visiting the site. I assume you are no longer involved with the discord chat, but that's your business and your choice to make. If you are really dedicated to the site, then I would suggest staying regardless of how you feel about him, and just disregard him as an admin that you don't like. Don't make it personal, because it gets ugly fast, and gives off the wrong impression. I tried talking to him way before I started making this thread. the third message I screenshotted from his hate wall was of me asking him why he did that to me. Although I was angry at him, I was open to him talking to me. But then he not only erased my message, which is against the rules, he put it on his wall.

And I got reports from common friends of ours that he seems to be avoiding talking about our convo at all. So I'm assuming that he's actively ignoring me for some reason, although I demanded an explanation to why he kicked me out, and it's been a while since I asked for an explanation.