Board Thread:General Wiki Discussion/@comment-24376429-20140310191324/@comment-6540148-20140310234510

Oh gosh xD. Well, I feel a bit attacked if anything, but no its fine. Here, let me give you a couple of things that I think I need to clear up.

1. The only thing I am guilty of for doing with my girlfriend, was having a bit more tolerance with her. I've scorned her many a time to stop making drama in chat. (More on that note, has anyone seen her recently? thats because I've told her about how much her actions are affecting chat. She herself feels attacked, and well, she stopped coming, knowing that it would be better for her to stop all drama with everyone then get me further into trouble.) I can tell you guys that for sure, I have if anything, been the harshest with her, coming one kick close to banning her. Thats more than I've given other users that are involoved with this. (I think the most kicks I gave to calm down users was 2, and that was because they themselves wouldn't drop the subject.)

2. In what I felt would be a good action, I told any user that would cause drama with her to stop talking to her. If we all ignore the people that do us wrong, then no one has a problem anymore right? I myself was told to stop talking to noah after he started the drama with me, or else I would probably get banned. Did I complain? no. I found it fair, if he wasnt going to talk to me, I wouldn't talk to him. You can go ahead and check. Every time I've warned an user to stop talking to another user, I acknowlege that I have to be strict with both users, not just one, especially that I may be biased with.

3. "More so he has started subtly enforcing rules that don't actually exist " If this refers to the banning people for offsite drama, I am sorry. We all make mistakes. Cleric banned Zack for offsite drama, so I thought thats what set the precedent for that. It was not in the rules in my memory until AFTER any of these incidents happened, so it was really hard to find out the actual regulations. (I proposed to have a meeting so we could clear this up, but everyone seemed to complain about it and maria even ended up saying that it wasn't important enough. http://creepypasta.wikia.com/wiki/Thread:216572 )

4. "claims flame baiting whenever there is a disagreement between a user he favours and one that is favoured less. " This morning, maria was on chat, and was being REALLY bitter about getting demoted. She started talking about how people here are full of bullshit, and well, when one of the other users started talking about his girlfriend, she started being immensly rude, and commented on her negatively (he showed us a pic of her, and maria said something along the lines of "If I wanted to see the picture of a dog, I would have looked it up myself"). Last time I checked, flame baiting, was when any particular user -- for whatever reason -- tried to anger another user into getting angry by making comments that are imflamatory. That is what I have as a definition. Also, I don't know about you guys, but I don't like getting offended, which is why we made that one chat guideliness thread saying that we have to be a lot nicer to people. If anything, I am the only mod that tries to enforce this even BEFORE it was "put in place".

5. Last of all, I would like you to look at the evidence presented against me. As I am aware, I have only made minor mistakes. I have seen mods come and go, and I know that many have done much more dramatic things, yet this is one of the few (if any) mistakes I have done. I have always tried to be friendly in chat, and helpful. If you don't see me on chat, thats maybe because I am one of the few mods that are bold enough to take the night shift in chat (I know I'm not perfect. I fall asleep at night, but I like most people here go to a school. Sorry for giving my body something it needs.)

Not to be forgotten, is also the vigor and ferocity that has been shown by the people that have made this thread. The rhetoric used like "  to abuse his rights in favour of his current girl friend which constantly antagonizes users for the purpose of starting drama. " and "alone is intolerable and warrants demotion in itself ", if anything is used to cause an inflamatory effect on the reader, and might even entice them enough to think in... not the most civilized of terms. I hope that when people comment on here, they are fully aware that their comments are read, and really taken to heart. If anything, I have been one of the most supportive individuals in chat. I try to be fair, and listen to both sides of the story. Any person that sticks around long enough, knows that I try my hardest to be a good mod, and an even better person. I hope that you all consider all these pieces of info, and that you get interested into my side of the story as well. Again, I feel like the only mistake I've made, is have a bit too much tolerance with my girlfriend, and not know the unwritten rules. Please, If you have any questions, my talk page is reachable, or talk to me on chat.