User blog comment:Rainboh/Lost/@comment-10789912-20151112113429

One of the biggest aspects of life is dealing with out actions. You acted. Time to deal with it. You had a lot of time to regret, and even stop it. Before it happened, you had time to back away, say if made you uncomfortable, or that you were in a relationship. During it, you had plenty of time to stop, come clean, say you were uncomfortable, or realize what you were doing. After, you had one more thing you could have done- tell him. You missed all of those opportunities. You've mentioned a child before in your past blogs. The least you can do is make sure this doesn't effect your parenting, nor treatment of the child. You two will have to work this out alone, as your relationship follows your rules. There are dozens of ways to work this out, and you'll have to seek it out. Venting online isn't one of them. Time is your most precious resource. Don't waste time, and allow time to flow to heal opened wounds.