User blog comment:Xxthegirlonfirexx/Don't hate. Just don't/@comment-4832646-20140415164203/@comment-24791560-20140416085253

He's right, if you hold someone's hand the whole way through it they will never learn. Being kind about it doesn't work. You have to be upfront or the person will never improve.its more of you changing your dynamic on how you interpret criticism rather than the way the critic expresses his point of view.