Board Thread:General Discussion/@comment-5371501-20130513140819

Okay this has gotten rather annoying. We really need to stop using the word "Buthurt" "Butthurt" to describe users or actions. That just stirs up things that wouldn't have happened otherwise. When you delete a story and the user leaves an angry message on your talk page, there is no reason to go around calling them buthurt as the "pokes the bull" so to speak. Instead try being polite and curteous to the user, being nice goes a long way and makes this wiki look much more respectable on a global scale.

Also we need to talk about what to do when a user contacts you off site. If it is not through email, ignore it. If the email is full of threats and metaphorical anger, then ignore it. Only respond to the user when they aren't inthe heat of the moment as they will be more reasonable. This again gives us a much better reputation. 